I’ve been thinking lately about the first person I ever had sex with, and the impact she’s had on my sexual desires and preferences today. I am fairly convinced that we all spend our sexual lives gravitating back to the attributes of our first lover. We try new things on for size, we find new attributes attractive, and we get turned on by all types of people, but somewhere deep down in the always-horny part of or brains we want our first.
The first girl I slept with was adventurous. We were both virgins, and once we started fucking, we tried everything that crossed our minds. We fucked in crazy places, in crazy positions, crazy often. Most of my relationships since have felt in one way or another slightly restrained.
She had an incredible balance between her dominant and submissive sides. One day she would pin me to the bed and make me tell her to fuck me, and the next she would quietly let me hold her hands behind her back while I pounded her, whispering how much she liked it. I will be forever drawn to women like this.
Perhaps most conspicuously, I was impacted by her body. She was tall and curvy, full hips, big ass, large breasts. Her thighs were smooth and thick, her stomach gracefully rounded. The thing that most aroused me was the way she owned her curves. She loved the way her tits bounced while we fucked. She would tease me by rubbing my erection against her soft stomach. I don’t just yearn for a curvy woman, but for a curvy woman who owns her curves. I love that, and I suspect I always will.
And you? What impact did your first have on your desires and preferences?